ARE YOU KEEPING YOUR DEEPEST DESIRE HIDDEN FROM THE WORLD?

I have something I want to share with you. And typically, I have no problem sharing any and all manner of things with you. But tonight, I’m super scared, because I want this so badly that I’m afraid to admit it, even to myself. Because if I admit it to myself, then I must enter into that painful cycle of longing and wondering, hoping and waiting. So, in order for me to not feel so alone, will you join me? If I share this deepest desire with you, will you share yours with me? Or, are you more comfortable keeping your deepest desire hidden from the world? Continue reading ARE YOU KEEPING YOUR DEEPEST DESIRE HIDDEN FROM THE WORLD?

6 WAYS TO MAINTAIN HEALTHY SPACE IN A RELATIONSHIP

I have to say that one of my favorite things about my love partner, is that he’s cool with me needing space in our relationship. Not only is he cool with it, but he’d also be horrified if I never gave him the space he needed. Here’s the thing. When you know you’re with someone who wants to be with you, you don’t have to panic when there is space between you. And if you are with someone who gives you space when you need it, you will never feel suffocated, guilty, obligated, or trapped. Maintaining healthy space in a relationship can be tricky if you’re not used to it. But here are 6 tips to stick to when trying to create healthy space. I promise, I won’t lead you astray! I’m kind of amazing at this… Continue reading 6 WAYS TO MAINTAIN HEALTHY SPACE IN A RELATIONSHIP

THE ONLY TWO THINGS YOU NEED TO DO TO FIND LOVE

I am not a mysterious woman. I have always worn my heart on my sleeve, and I do so with this blog as well. So, I will tell you up front the only two things you need to do to find love. And it’s up to you to hang in there with me while I thoughtfully break this down for you. Will you join me for the ride? Continue reading THE ONLY TWO THINGS YOU NEED TO DO TO FIND LOVE

WHY IS TALKING ABOUT FEMALE MASTURBATION SO TABOO?

I’m not saying I’m totally comfortable with talking about masturbation. Even seeing the word feels kinda weird, doesn’t it? Typing it out certainly feels kind of weird. But why? Obviously, it’s a natural thing. And lots of men talk about it in SO many different, fun, and creative ways. So why can’t we? Why are we so embarrassed? In our culture, why is talking about female masturbation so taboo? Continue reading WHY IS TALKING ABOUT FEMALE MASTURBATION SO TABOO?

ASKING FOR WHAT WE WANT IN THE BEDROOM

I recently binged watched The Goop Lab with Gwyneth Paltrow on Netflix and she did an episode on female sexuality. This episode got me thinking about so many things, and why it’s so hard, as women, asking for what we want in the bedroom. I also appreciated how Gwyneth shared that as a young woman, she was mostly concerned with pleasing the guy. And only in her 40s did she start thinking about her own pleasure. I felt so validated by her honesty. And up until that point, I really thought I was the only woman who felt that way. Continue reading ASKING FOR WHAT WE WANT IN THE BEDROOM

5 WAYS TO AVOID LOSING YOURSELF ON A DATE

I am not exactly the queen of losing myself on dates, but I might be the princess of this domain. Maybe a duchess. My personality is quite strong, and I really do know who I am. But before The Goddess Attainable, I was a master of turning my power over to men, especially if I was attracted to them. Depending on the man I was on a date with, I would displaying varying duchess-princess-queen levels of self-abandonment, and it really sucked. Continue reading 5 WAYS TO AVOID LOSING YOURSELF ON A DATE

HOW BLOGGING CHANGED MY LIFE

My life changed when I started my blog and the story is really rather inspirational. I never really put the pieces together when I first began blogging, but sometimes you need distance from something in order to see the magic of it. I have been blogging for almost four years now, and I love it more than I ever thought I would. Continue reading HOW BLOGGING CHANGED MY LIFE

HOW TO DATE ONLINE THE RIGHT WAY (AND THE WRONG WAY)

When you form a connection with a person in only an electronic capacity, it begins to skew your idea of the person, and you enter into an illusion of fantasy intimacy. I’m telling you from experience, I did this so many times, and I finally learned that it just doesn’t work. Continue reading HOW TO DATE ONLINE THE RIGHT WAY (AND THE WRONG WAY)

THE TRUTH ABOUT DATING AND THREE IMPORTANT THINGS NO ONE EVER TELLS YOU

I am no longer single. But my years of dating and struggling with my love life will forever be a part of me. And I truly thank the Universe every day for finally delivering me from that space of singleness. It was hard and I don’t wish the struggle on anyone. That being said, I … Continue reading THE TRUTH ABOUT DATING AND THREE IMPORTANT THINGS NO ONE EVER TELLS YOU