A GODDESS AWAKENING HAPPENS WHEN YOU NEED IT TO

I have adored this goddess from the moment I stumbled across her blog. After typing “goddess” in my Wordpress Reader search field, I found The Hot Goddess, and I’m so happy I did! I wanted to find and follow other like-minded goddesses, and share with them my own journey of my goddess awakening. Natalie, is one of those goddesses who has had an incredible life journey, and she’s still on it! And over time, I have come to believe that her and I are kindred blogger spirits! It’s so amazing what happens when you open yourself up to others. Continue reading A GODDESS AWAKENING HAPPENS WHEN YOU NEED IT TO

ALCHEMIZING MY FEELINGS OF JEALOUSY INTO MANIFESTATION MAGIC

For most of my life, all I ever wanted was to find love. I really didn’t put much energy into other things. I mean, I went to school, got good grades, made my artwork, and found a good job. But, I really couldn’t direct my deepest soul yearnings towards anything else, until I had achieved relationship comfortability. And now that I have the love thing underway, over the last year, I have been able to focus on other things. For instance, I would really like to have something I can feel proud of in my life. I would like to have creative success and power. And I’ve been working my wheels of manifestation magic, spinning them to the max. But, like everything in life, there are roadblocks and lessons. And honestly, I struggle with jealousy and envy of others. Continue reading ALCHEMIZING MY FEELINGS OF JEALOUSY INTO MANIFESTATION MAGIC

YOU CAN’T BECOME A BETTER PERSON IF YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT’S WRONG WITH YOU

I know the title of this article kind of sounds like a bummer. And I don’t mean to imply that you have terrible things wrong with you, although you might. But, that’s not a problem. Because guess what? So do I. And so does everyone. I’m 41 years old and I would like to think that I have many of my “issues” under control. I’m a super functional human being and I have really positive and healthy relationships that make me happy. However, over the last few weeks, some of my not-so-fab traits have been emerging, and I’m really motivated to improve them. And I’m so relieved these issues have danced into the light for me to face. Because, I can’t really become a better person if I don’t know what’s wrong with me in the first place. And neither can you! Continue reading YOU CAN’T BECOME A BETTER PERSON IF YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT’S WRONG WITH YOU

THE ONLY TWO THINGS YOU NEED TO DO TO FIND LOVE

I am not a mysterious woman. I have always worn my heart on my sleeve, and I do so with this blog as well. So, I will tell you up front the only two things you need to do to find love. And it’s up to you to hang in there with me while I thoughtfully break this down for you. Will you join me for the ride? Continue reading THE ONLY TWO THINGS YOU NEED TO DO TO FIND LOVE

CATCHING UP 20 YEARS LATER WITH MY COLLEGE ROOMMATE

I don’t often keep in touch with people I went to school with. My friends were few and far between in high school. And in college, I really only connected with a rare few, even though I desperately tried to find like-minded souls during that time. And although my college roommate and I had very little in common, and did not hang in the same circles, we still kinda dug each other. We most likely never would have been friends if we weren’t randomly assigned to live with each other freshman year. And when you live with someone, if all goes well, it’s easy to form a bond that can last well after you have both moved on. This POD-BLOG* article, and this week’s podcast episode, revolves around my catching up 20 years later with my college roommate, Molly McIntyre. Continue reading CATCHING UP 20 YEARS LATER WITH MY COLLEGE ROOMMATE

ASKING FOR WHAT WE WANT IN THE BEDROOM

I recently binged watched The Goop Lab with Gwyneth Paltrow on Netflix and she did an episode on female sexuality. This episode got me thinking about so many things, and why it’s so hard, as women, asking for what we want in the bedroom. I also appreciated how Gwyneth shared that as a young woman, she was mostly concerned with pleasing the guy. And only in her 40s did she start thinking about her own pleasure. I felt so validated by her honesty. And up until that point, I really thought I was the only woman who felt that way. Continue reading ASKING FOR WHAT WE WANT IN THE BEDROOM

THE GODDESS ATTAINABLE PODCAST IS NOW LIVE

I suddenly became inspired to start a podcast several months ago, and I just went with it. These days, everyone and anyone can start their own podcast, and there is so much information now about how to do it. The “starting it part” was easy and super fun! I also began with a solid idea in mind, but as I have been making recordings, the podcast is starting to kind of form into what it wants to be. And it’s still morphing. Again, I’m going with it and leaning into that. This podcast is very ME. So, if you like ME, then you will probably like this podcast. The Goddess Attainable Podcast is now live, and I invite you to listen. Continue reading THE GODDESS ATTAINABLE PODCAST IS NOW LIVE

IMPROVE YOUR LIFE BY LEARNING TO LISTEN

I am a decent listener in some aspects. In other areas, not so much. First off, I love to talk. I love to express and I love to share. You would think that would make me a terrible listener. However, I ultimately enjoy making authentic connections with others, and I know enough to know that you can’t connect with people unless you REALLY listen to them and take a genuine interest in what they have to say. It’s called “being a good conversationalist” and I think I have that on lockdown. However, there is always room for improvement. Continue reading IMPROVE YOUR LIFE BY LEARNING TO LISTEN

5 WAYS TO AVOID LOSING YOURSELF ON A DATE

I am not exactly the queen of losing myself on dates, but I might be the princess of this domain. Maybe a duchess. My personality is quite strong, and I really do know who I am. But before The Goddess Attainable, I was a master of turning my power over to men, especially if I was attracted to them. Depending on the man I was on a date with, I would displaying varying duchess-princess-queen levels of self-abandonment, and it really sucked. Continue reading 5 WAYS TO AVOID LOSING YOURSELF ON A DATE

I’M HORMONAL RIGHT NOW AND I CAN’T HELP IT

Yesterday, I was just not myself. I’m usually very goofy, upbeat, happy, energized, and very open. But yesterday, I was quiet, reserved, subdued, and almost numb. Yesterday also happened to be my late mother’s birthday, and I wondered if I was feeling blue because of that (she passed in 2017). But I’m still feeling rather blue today, and my menstrual calendar tells me that my feeling-like-shit-feelings are happening for a reason. Yep. It’s a week before my period. Continue reading I’M HORMONAL RIGHT NOW AND I CAN’T HELP IT