IMPROVE YOUR LIFE BY LEARNING TO LISTEN

I am a decent listener in some aspects. In other areas, not so much. First off, I love to talk. I love to express and I love to share. You would think that would make me a terrible listener. However, I ultimately enjoy making authentic connections with others, and I know enough to know that you can’t connect with people unless you REALLY listen to them and take a genuine interest in what they have to say. It’s called “being a good conversationalist” and I think I have that on lockdown. However, there is always room for improvement. Continue reading IMPROVE YOUR LIFE BY LEARNING TO LISTEN

I’M HORMONAL RIGHT NOW AND I CAN’T HELP IT

Yesterday, I was just not myself. I’m usually very goofy, upbeat, happy, energized, and very open. But yesterday, I was quiet, reserved, subdued, and almost numb. Yesterday also happened to be my late mother’s birthday, and I wondered if I was feeling blue because of that (she passed in 2017). But I’m still feeling rather blue today, and my menstrual calendar tells me that my feeling-like-shit-feelings are happening for a reason. Yep. It’s a week before my period. Continue reading I’M HORMONAL RIGHT NOW AND I CAN’T HELP IT

HOW TO DATE ONLINE THE RIGHT WAY (AND THE WRONG WAY)

When you form a connection with a person in only an electronic capacity, it begins to skew your idea of the person, and you enter into an illusion of fantasy intimacy. I’m telling you from experience, I did this so many times, and I finally learned that it just doesn’t work. Continue reading HOW TO DATE ONLINE THE RIGHT WAY (AND THE WRONG WAY)

CALLING ALL SINGLE LADIES LOOKING FOR LOVE

I write this post because when I was single, I was always looking for sound advice from those who had figured it out, and I always felt let down in some way. Either the person giving the advice had a relationship that ultimately ended. Or their advice felt very unreachable and inaccessible. I also read … Continue reading CALLING ALL SINGLE LADIES LOOKING FOR LOVE

RELATIONSHIP SEX: HOW TO FEEL CONSISTENTLY POSITIVE ABOUT SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER AND NEVER, EVER DREAD THE ACT

Have you ever been in a relationship and had sex with your partner when you didn’t want to? I can’t imagine that any woman reading this (or even any woman not reading this) would answer no. For women especially, this is just something that we have been conditioned to do, and I think all of … Continue reading RELATIONSHIP SEX: HOW TO FEEL CONSISTENTLY POSITIVE ABOUT SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER AND NEVER, EVER DREAD THE ACT

REIKI, PART IV: SACRAL CHAKRA HEALING

My previous post concludes with the mention of some unnecessarily prescribed antibiotics which led to an unfortunate disturbance within my sacral chakra. Please enjoy all of my previous posts from this series before proceeding, or feel free to dive in head first, without map or compass: REIKI, PART I: THE BEGINNING, REIKI, PART II: ROOT … Continue reading REIKI, PART IV: SACRAL CHAKRA HEALING